Reflecting on this week’s readings and my personal experiences with technology, I have realized that information and activities related to our lives are no longer private. Technology has infiltrated our privacy and become an integral part of our daily lives, including in schools and workplaces. Just as we need to provide identification for government services, having a digital identity has become crucial for accessing online platforms, applications, and resources from schools and organizations worldwide. Research defines digital identity as an individual’s online representation, encompassing digital attributes, credentials, and personal information (Amenta et al., 2015; Başoğlu, 2024). The blog post on (Digital) Identity in a World that No Longer Forgets by Couros and Hildebrandt (2015) discusses the complexities and challenges of managing digital identities in an age where online actions are permanently recorded. The authors highlighted the importance of understanding how difficult it is to erase negative aspects of one’s digital footprint due to the permanence of online content. However, the societal expectation is that individuals should be able to manage their digital footprints effectively by curating their online presence to overshadow past mistakes and deleting negative images, videos or commentaries and replacing them with positive ones.
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Gone are those days when we write letters to chat with family and friends or wait to attend events before we can network. Technological innovation has transformed how we use social media platforms to network and communicate information. However, from my experience, there is a lot of content on social media platforms that is fabricated and deceptive. Unfortunately, this information is leading teenagers to make decisions that do not align with the reality of life. I have met with a lot of parents who have tried persuading their teens to use social media, but instead, the situation is getting better; it just keeps getting worse to the extent that these kids try to create several private accounts for doing negative stuff, which ends up boomeranging on them. Just like the article by Homayoun (2017) on the secret social media lives of teenagers, I think it is important that parents begin to engage in open discussions with their young children and teens about online activities and behaviours rather than monitoring them or putting limitations on what they can and cannot access. This is an essential part of digital citizenship that involves teaching kids how to behave responsibly on digital platforms. Many of today’s teenagers construct their identities through social media platforms and whatever identity they create today plays a significant role in their future endevours because these platforms now retain information that can be used in the future. So, I think parents, schools, and teachers need to help teens recognize the interconnectedness of their online and offline lives and encourage them to develop their own values regarding appropriate online behaviours (images, comments, videos etc).
References
Amenta, V., Lazzaroni, A., & Abba, L. (2015). Internet Identity and the Right to be Forgotten: International Trends and Regulatory Perspectives. In Handbook of Research on Redesigning the Future of Internet Architectures (pp. 32-46). IGI Global.
Başoğlu, A. B. Z. (2024). Navigating Virtual Realities and Hybrid Spaces in the Tron Cinematic Landscape. In Studies on Cinematography and Narrative in Film: Sequels, Serials, and Trilogies (pp. 19-41). IGI Global.
Couros, A. & Hildebrandt, K. (2015). (Digital) Identity in a World that No Longer Forgets. Available at https://katiahildebrandt.ca/digital-identity-in-a-world-that-no-longer-forgets/
Homayoun, A. (2017).The Secret Social Media Lives of Teenagers. Available at https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/07/well/family/the-secret-social-media-lives-of-teenagers.html
Hello Ayodeleo! I agree with you when you said that “it is important that parents begin to engage in open discussions with their young children and teens about online activities and behaviours rather than monitoring them or putting limitations on what they can and cannot access.” If parents really want their kids to be more open to them, they must stop acting like a spy on their kid’s online world. To build connections, parents have to respect the autonomy and privacy, while also educating them on how to be safe and social in the digital community.
This is really insightful. The world can become a better place when parents build friendships with their children instead of taking a controlling approach. Raising a child should be about fostering love and creating an open, trusting environment. This connection helps children learn ethical values in a positive way, allowing them to understand right from wrong without facing harsh consequences. By prioritizing connection over control, parents empower their kids to navigate the world in a responsible way.