My Relationship with Social Media
Social media has become a significant part of my daily life. I regularly engage with platforms, mainly Reddit, Instagram, Snapchat, and Tiktok. Since getting my first social media account (Facebook) in high school, I’ve seen firsthand the evolution of these platforms over the past 20ish years. Throughout this time, social media has been a source of personal and professional connection, learning, and tension. My relationship with it is complex – a blend of wonder and appreciation, and frustration and disappointment.
On the positive side, social media has opened many doors to connections and ideas that I might have never encountered otherwise. Some platforms have made it easier to maintain relationships with old friends, and to connect with many new people. While other platforms have provided me with free entertainment, fresh ideas and perspectives, and quick updates on current events. Social media has also enriched my teaching practice as I’ve incorporated brain breaks and short educational videos that I discovered online into my classroom.
However, the constant accessibility of curated perfection and on social media can sometimes create feelings of inadequacy. Additionally, I have felt frustrated or disappointed in society when I read too many comments on some social media posts. In these circumstances, I’ve learned the importance of reminding myself that I am viewing others’ “life highlights” and often reading comments from some individuals who did not THINK (Is it true, helpful, inspiring, necessary, kind?) before posting.
Ultimately, I see social media as valuable tool – personally and professionally – that requires intentional and mindful use. It is a space where connection and learning can thrive, but only with careful attention to choosing what to follow and engage with.
Thank you for your post. I have to say what resonated with me was your thought that “Ultimately, I see social media as a valuable tool – personally and professionally – that requires intentional and mindful use.” This is absolutely spot on.
Thanks for your post! The part that resonated with me was the fact that I too have felt feelings of inadequacy while viewing others’ versions of “perfect”. Only now in my adult life have I been finding some groups that allow woman to be their authentic selves and share the good, bad and ugly versions of themselves without fear of shame! It’s exciting times for sure!
Thank you both for your thoughtful comments!
Even as adults, social media can be complex part of life. The amount of pressure, influence, and content/information can be overwhelming and hard to navigate.
I hope to see a mandatory class in the future (similarly to how Financial Literacy 10 was just added) that addresses and teaches students how to use basic technology and social media. For example, a course that teaches students how to find credible online sources, how to sift through the vast amount of information online, how to create engaging posters/presentations, how to critically thinking about what they are viewing, how to cope with the pressures, etc.
Hello Burns.
Thank you for the insightful reflection.
I liked how you captured the duality of social media thus the balance between the potentials and the challenges.
Your mentioned how social media platforms have evolved over the past years, shaping both personal and professional aspects of your life which gives a deep meaning on your perspective..
The latter part of your post reinforced the idea that mindful engagement which I absolutely agree with you because when it is used with a good purpose and discernment, it can be a valuable tool rather than a source of unnecessary distraction. I would like to know if you have found any specific ways that help you maintain this balance in your daily life?
Hello
Thank you for sharing your insightful reflection.