Can I Get a Witness!
For my Dad’s 70th birthday, my gift was a road trip. Just him and I. We headed south of Regina down highway 6, turned onto highway 13 towards Weyburn and then drove through to Moose Mountain Provincial Park. He guided us through the back roads to where him and his buddies have been hunting for the past 30+ years. From there we headed north to Whitewood where we met one of his friends for lunch and then to Cowessess First Nation, of which we both belong. Once on the Nation, he maneuvered us through what I can only describe as goat paths until we made our way to the Qu’Appelle Valley and then followed the Scenic Route all the way to Fort Qu’Appelle, where he grew up. From the time we left Regina until we arrived in the Fort, he shared story after story. He beamed with pride reminiscing of the good ol’days. He told me of the days when Mom and he were first married and were living in Weyburn. He told me many hunting stories with his friends, including the time he got lost and had to “sleep” with his back against a tree, trying to stay warm until daylight. He told me of the people he knew on Cowessess and stories of kokom who grew up there. He told me of the fights he had at the Katepwa Lake Dance Hall, with guys who ended up becoming lifelong friends. He told me of the dates where he took Mom. Gross. And he told me of the baseball games and football games he played in at Bert Fox High School. He told me these stories and many more.
Dad passed away on June 9th of this year, one week before his 74th birthday. Now I tell you this, not to make you sad but to seriously consider what Wes Fryer told us in week seven. Be your family’s digital witness. Record your loved one’s stories. I of course would love to go back in time and record Dad telling me about these stories over the course of the day’s drive, but it isn’t to be. These stories remain in my memory now and I’ll cherish them forever. Wes said to take pictures, make slides, and have the person record their story over them. Preserve their voice and the details. Be a digital witness. Be a digital storyteller. Have an archive of oral stories. Be a storychaser for your family. I plan to record some stories over the Easter break, when I visit Mom and Dad’s winter home in Chelem, Mexico as well as a road trip planned for Mom and I this summer. Heck, I might even get my brother and sister to retell a couple doozies from our past. This will be a fun little passion project. And that’s just it, isn’t it. A project that is fun. We sure could use more of those in our classrooms. And with current cell phone policies in the province, what a great loophole this project could be. So to you budding Speilberg’s, Tarantino’s, and Wiseau’s, get out there and preserve some memories before it’s too late!
This is an awesome adventure you plan to undertake and I hope you have a blast on the journey through history. I have always loved history, and stories from the past. As a bit of a sci-fi nerd, I have found it to be the closest thing to time travel. Closing my eyes and envisioning myself in a bygone era, wondering if I could survive.
I love this plan for you! DO you have an app that you plan to use? Or just record with your phone and put it together? I’m going to do more of this with my parents. Thank you for the nudge!
Wow, this is really thoughtful, and it’s a plan I would love to explore. There’s a Nigerian song that highlights the lyric, ‘Are you taking the pictures of every memory of your life?’ I really love this song because it made me reflect on how I’ve always focused on making memories when life felt more settled. However, the truth is that what makes up our memories isn’t just the good times. The difficult moments also make those memories feel even more real and impactful. I plan to create more memories for myself and with loved ones. Thank you for sharing this beautiful reminder because in the end, memories are what truly matter, helping us to enjoy life rather than simply pass through it.