Social media has woven itself into the fabric of our daily lives, influencing how we connect, learn, and share. Reflecting on my journey with social media, I see how it aligns with generational trends, even though I strive to avoid stereotypes. As a member of Generation X, my experiences with social media have evolved significantly over the years.
The Early Days: Facebook
My social media journey began with Facebook. As a Generation Xer, I was drawn to Facebook for its ability to reconnect with old friends, share life updates, and stay in touch with family. Facebook became a digital scrapbook of sorts, where I could post photos, share milestones, and engage in meaningful conversations. What changed for me is when I became a father. I briefly started posting pictures of my children on Facebook. Not exceptionally long after I realized that it may not be a good idea. For some reason I was concerned about my children’s privacy, and they were not yet given a say. So, this impacted my use of social media as an editor and producer to a viewer.
Professional Networking: LinkedIn
As my career progressed, LinkedIn emerged as an essential platform for professional networking. It allowed me to connect with colleagues, highlight my skills, and explore new career opportunities. LinkedIn became a valuable tool for building my professional brand and staying updated on industry trends. In my later career I have found less of a need for networking. Also, I am now thinking about my own privacy. What information do I want to have online? For that reason, I now network more through use of other platforms such Microsoft Teams and Zoom Meetings. I also participate on platforms that are for certain groups like the Edsby Enthusiasts Portal. The result is that I network at a smaller level with the groups I want to engage with. I do not just put things out to the world.
Learning and DIY: YouTube
YouTube has been a momentous change for me, especially when it comes to home repair and construction tutorials. The platform’s vast library of instructional videos has empowered me to tackle various DIY projects with confidence. From fixing a leaky faucet to siding a house, YouTube has been my go-to resource for practical knowledge. I even use it in my work. I am always looking for solutions and searching for innovative ideas. Again, I know that I am dating myself, but hard habits are hard to break when they serve a positive purpose.
Graduate Studies and Twitter
In recent years, as I embarked on graduate studies, I found myself using Twitter (now known as X) more frequently. Twitter became a platform for academic engagement, where I could follow thought leaders, participate in discussions, and stay informed about the latest research and trends in my field. Since it changed to X, I have stopped using it because I do not want to pay for the service.
The Impact of the Pandemic
The pandemic of 2020 had a profound impact on my relationship with social media. With an influx of information and opinions flooding social media platforms, I realized the importance of managing my consumption. Excessive social media use led to increased anxiety, reduced open-mindedness, and a general sense of overwhelm. This experience taught me the value of moderation and mindfulness in my social media habits. I will throughout the year do a digital detoxification. This happens, especially in the summer. That is a time when I put the device down and reconnect and become intune with the environment around me.
A Shift Towards Enterprise Platforms
Since the pandemic, I have become more selective about the platforms I use. I now prefer platforms under the enterprise banner, such as Google and Microsoft, for their focus on productivity and professional communication. These platforms offer a more controlled and secure environment for sharing and collaboration. Working in the school division we have worked on 3rd party online usage guidelines for the school division. That experience has taught me that nothing is free. If you buy an app then the app is the product. If you do not buy the app then YOU are the product. That is a huge mindset change for me.
Navigating Social Media with Caution
Building from my last point about the growing expectations from employers regarding social media use. I have become more cautious about how I consume and share content. It is essential to be mindful of the messages we put out and the impact they can have on our personal and professional lives. By monitoring my social media activity and being intentional about my online presence, I strive to maintain a healthy and balanced relationship with social media.
My journey with social media reflects the broader trends of Generation X and my professional life. While highlighting the unique ways these platforms have shaped my life. From reconnecting with friends on Facebook to learning new skills on YouTube, each platform has played a significant role in my digital experience. As I continue to navigate the ever-evolving social media landscape, I remain mindful of the impact it has on my well-being and professional life.
When it comes to the face pace change world of social media, I have taken the approach “slow and steady always wins the race.”