Self-story Three

In China, my family is near the middle class, not very rich. I did not know much about cosmetics and luxury products before high school. Although I did not buy them often, an experience after high school made me feel that people have very different attitudes towards different classes. I also know that this phenomenon is very common.

I remember when I was in the 10th grade, my friends led me to pay attention to makeup and my dress. It is just to understand these in the beginning, and then to prepare these materials. The experience of buying materials fully reflects everyone’s class status. Since I was buying cosmetics for the first time, I found my friend to accompany me. When I first went in, there were not many people in the store. The shopping guide just glanced at us and then followed us. During our purchase process, there was very little communication, and the shopping guide did not recommend it as enthusiastically as other people said, for example, when we saw something, someone would recommend it with that thing. When we asked some questions, she also simply answered, such as whether there is inventory, or whether it is suitable for me. However, I liked that kind of situation, not too much or less. I think that situation is comfortable for me.

Later, there was a woman came who seems to be like a wealthy class. Although I didn’t see her wealth at that time, my friend told me that her clothes and pants were expensive. And that person was followed by two shopping guides. Although they were not as exaggerated as in the movie, their enthusiasm was real. Even in the end the lady bought only two goods, but the cashier carefully packaged and decorated each one. I did not know that whether the woman asked or the cashier chose to, but their attitude was different. Compared to that woman, those who looked like working-class people later did not have the shopping guide. I had a shopping guide to ask, but they had to find the shopping guides for helping. It was not a big difference, but it was about the attitude. For this experience, I found that it is easy for people to know their social status by looking the attitude of the shopping guides. Also, for some store, not only for the store that I went, they would not even let people in if their clothes is not clean.

I did not envy the service of the woman, and I felt a little stressed about that, but I did not like the way they treat working-class and poor people. This was the first time that I feel that differences in social status affect people in all aspects of life. I know that this kind of phenomenon appears in many different way and different place.

One thought on “Self-story Three

  1. Hi Guman!
    Your self story on socioeconomic status was a great example of attitudes presented towards different classes that can often go unnoticed by people. As many middle class people will rarely see how places like a beauty store will accommodate people in different ways, I feel as though we only ever notice when someone above us is treated better. By this I mean that often when out doing something (like shopping), a person of middle class might be able to see that someone who looks wealthy is given more attention by employees. Although we tend to notice this with people “above” us, I personally find that it isn’t as easily seen by anyone who is poor, which I believe is another issue in society that should be seen more clearly and easily. Although this could be wrong, I have found myself to pick out someone getting special attention much easier than someone not getting enough! do you find this to be the same for you? I agree with your opinion on the service of the woman and think that there should not be a difference in this at all because you cannot really know the lives of others. As for your self story, I would try to add some more feelings and detail in the interaction you had with the employee/ the woman had with the employee. Overall, you did a great job in bringing forward what you were trying to say and the kind of setting that you were in was made to be a clear image through the use of your words, thanks for a great read 🙂

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